Annetta
My Story
On knowing yourself
On getting through life’s tests, and how “if there is no test, there’s no testimony”
Words to live by, from one of her mentors
Annetta shares the story of her mothers final days, and a lesson in “When things go wrong, don’t go with them”
The story of her wife’s passing
Words of encouragement that Annetta carries with her, always
How to move through grief
On other’s perception of you, and how “people will follow your lead”
What kind of tree are you, and how tall do you want to grow?
Loved Ones
Heartbreak, feelings of failure, and moving through grief
How to get through, and starting fresh each day
A reminder for not dwelling in the past
Opportunities in listing better to one another
Bringing the right energy
On the power of kindness
A perspective on conflict
Advice on how to resolve differences and conflict, and learning to “disagree better”
A past conflict with a friend, and what she might say now if she had the chance
Advice on love and loving someone else
Accomplishments
Annetta shares what she is most proud of in life thus far
How do you know if you are successful at something?
Annetta shares how learning brings her happiness
Jiu Jitsu, and learning new things
Annetta’s favorite day
Qualities that Annetta hopes to be remembered for
Tips for living a happy and meaningful life
On RuPaul and having the courage to be yourself
On not wasting time on FEAR aka “False Evidence that Appears Real”
Aligning your work with your natural interests and talents, and thoughts on a career in sales
Regrets, Fears & Forgiveness
Annetta discusses the reality of regrets and also living life now that doesn’t leave room for as many
In response to the question, “If you could do one thing differently in life, what would it be?”
Thoughts on forgiveness of oneself
A personal story about the journey of forgiveness
Exploration of fear
Thoughts on Black History Month, parallels with struggles in the world, and “taking up reigns and making sure this doesn't happen to anyone else”
In response to the question, “What was a lesson you had to learn ‘the hard way’?"
The differences between business and being productive
Values
12 year old Annetta
Annetta’s first job and making connections across race
Annetta shares a memory of kids teasing her and her mother’s way of reframing and comforting her
Advice for 12 year old Annetta
Spiritual beliefs, practices, and thoughts
Annetta shares her core values
On being honest and accountable for one’s actions
Thoughts on being your authentic self all of the time, and the way that hiding parts of yourself is a form of dishonesty
Keeping yourself honest and accountable, without becoming too judgmental of yourself or others
The importance of having grace for others
Tips for success - listening to your inner child
Annetta recalls stories about her mother, Carletta - the foundation of her life and stories
Things that should be practiced daily
Final Thoughts & Personal Experiences
Annetta shares her superpower
Growing up in Detroit, and childhood experiences that influenced Annetta’s love of learning and the human mind
In response to the question, “What color best describes your personality?”
On getting inspired to write her first book
Annetta shares a moment of pure joy at her son’s wedding
A very special thanks to Annetta for her time, humor, inspiration, honesty, and contributing to The Constellations Project!
Annetta’s book, ‘Released’ will be linked here when it is available for purchase.